There seems to be an alarming amount of attitude for entitlement. People expecting things or effort but not wanting to reciprocate. I see it a lot in relationships. It makes me sad. If you happen to be lucky enough to have someone in your life that gives their time, effort and resources to make your life easier, let them know they are appreciated.

I think the foundation of lasting love is one of solid communication, and always showing appreciation to your partner. If they mow the grass, think about the time and money they saved you by mowing the grass. It sounds simple, maybe silly. But again, I think many people expect those tasks. Think about the things someone in your life may do for you that saves you time, or money. Cook, clean house, and so forth. Pay attention to them, how do they like to receive appreciation and give it. Love is an exchange, an ebb and flow. Give and take. Try each day to list things you appreciate that someone does for you that makes your life easier. Focus on that gratitude.

I’ve been on the receiving end of feeling used and taken for granted. I am learning my journey to realize my worth and what I offer. I also realize when someone gives precious resources like their time to make my life easier, or better, I take notice. I keep an IOU and put action to it.